How to Make People Love You When You're Not Around: Be A ROSE

We all want to be appreciated and be loved by everyone, yes?

A couple of years ago, I met a woman named Theresa. We saw each other at a beach somewhere in Pangasinan and found out that we both lived in the same barangay. Little did we both know that we already shared the mutual feelings of friendship to each other. Theresa is talented. Imagine being able to paint, to sing with a guitar in her hands and to be a freelance photographer in such occasions at times.

Sure we teased each other back and forth, as friendships tend to do, but I’ll guarantee this about Theresa, she is one of the honest and genuine people I know.

Well, for one, Theresa is the kind of person where you can trust, really. Also, she is the kind of person who offers help to anyone no matter what the case or situation is and she is always there whenever you need someone to talk to.

The reason why I bring up Theresa to my blog is that I want her to have a HUGE success! Yes, she really deserves it. She is the down-to-earth and a family caring woman I know who could make you say that there’s an angel amidst the hell people you actually know.

She’s a ROSE Person! Radiant, Optimistic, Scholarly, Enthusiastic - Person

She is someone who cares for every person in this world, and sure thing, you can’t really help but like it.

Now you see why I like Theresa that much, right? Wouldn’t be nice if all people are like that? A ROSE- people who genuinely appreciate others instead of putting them down. How awesome it would be to see people smiling at each other, known or unknown, friend or stranger.

I absolutely know that this wouldn’t happen. It is so ambitious, yes. Life is not always according to what you want it to be. But why not make a difference? If you’d like to make people love you even when you are not around, then maybe you should learn some tips on how a ROSE does it.

First, always be kind and humble.

I can’t force everyone to be like this but why not try it for at least an hour and tell the difference to yourself.

Second, be complimentary.

I am not saying that you should always compliment the deeds of every person you know, but trust me, saying nice things at most times to others is the quickest way to endear your name and face to them. It’s not that dangerous.

Third, offer your help.

Helping others is your most valuable offering. Share your resources.

Fourth, be positive.

Nobody wants to be around someone who always feels like they are miserable.

Fifth, don’t trash other people.

Everyone has a purpose whether he or she completed his or her education. Others might be good at this, and others might not. We do not share the same strengths and capabilities.

There are no systematic instructions to make other people love you, of course. But adopting some of these ideas into your relationships could improve not just the lives of others, but your life as well.